Dear Malice,
I've got two questions for you!
1. Have you ever gotten worked up during a private dance? I know that it's a performance, but you're in that little tiny space, so close together... so tell me the truth, now: does it ever turn you on, or is it just a chore?
2. Okay, next question. A book I'm reading threw this into a love scene. It sounds awesome, and easy to do... so why haven't I heard of it before? Is everyone doing it but me? Am I really that sheltered? Step One: a person puts a whole ice cube in their mouth. Step Two: that person gives a guy head. What a great trick!
Barry
Brave of you not to use a fake name... Answers to your questions:
Most of the time I am really turned on when I give dances. It only becomes a chore when people try to get me to go home with them. I love being a tease... and it teases me when I see people getting turned on, I totally get off on it! But I do get sad if people think I'm faking it cuz I won't have sex with them. I love my job, I love turning people on... but making money is not a turn on for me. I still have to pay my stage fees and my rent and I appreciate that people will pay me to do what I love.
As far as ice cubes and oral sex... I have done it and if my partner likes it I would always indulge them. However, I personally hate being cold or having ice anywhere near my genitals. An ex-girlfriend of mine put ice cubes in my vagina once after she tied me up and blindfolded me... let's just say she was really lucky I was tied up!
Dear Malice,
The other day someone sent me this link: www.poobutton.com. (go check it out) Now tell me if that grosses you out or not? It's hard to imagine being that woman without puking all over that guy. I know people are into shit, but seeing it in action just makes it really hard to understand. What do you think, psychologically, makes a person like shit that much?
SCAT!
I think www.poobutton.com is rad and I would visit it again! I am not a professional — just a person with alot of un-reasearched theories — my theory on why a person would enjoy sexualizing defication is that they have a high level of guilt and/or shame about some part of thier past. But watching videos of it is different... personally, I get a little turned on by just about anything visual that's sexual... I'm very voyeristic. However, most things — especially feces — would really turn me off in person. I cant stand stinky shit and germs (but I dont mind pee.) I wouldnt be into it... I think there are always exceptions to every rule as well, I mean for example some people are just kinky and once they have done one kink then they need the next higher level of kink. I'm kinda that way too... I feel like I lived out so many of my fantasies and there's not much left to do — but I won't stop trying;)